When we first arrived in Kerala we were happy to be invited to visit Anju’s parents out in the sticks. Anju is our poet friend Wilson’s niece but she lives in Preston, near us. The same journey by rickshaw and metro, but this time to the end of the line where Joshna and her uncle and auntie came to pick us up. They live in a village tucked away near the airport.
Anju’s mum Mary, Wilson’s sister greeted us with a delicious Keralan breakfast of appam and coconut stew. Joshna acted as interpreter! Then we went for a walk round the village, stopping at each house to meet friends and neighbours. It was hot and humid but so green and lush and so many different plants tapioca, banana plantations and pawpaw.
Lunch was mango curry, with a chutney made from little cucumbers that they grow on the roof, and Charlie has beef and chicken.
Afterwards we sat round the table…Mary and her best friend, just us women and talked about our families, and showed photos on our phones …both Mary’s children live abroad, when I asked if she missed them, she said she was proud of what they have achieved…Joshna was translating all the time!
Mary put a lovely sari on and came to see us off at the Metro station.
We felt so much love and warmth and it was a privilege to be able to spend time with Anju’s family.

While we were staying with Kavitha in Thrissur we made several trips out into the countryside. The first was en route to visit the National Art Camp, when we dropped Rajesh off at his ancestral home, where his two aunties live, one in her eighties with dementia … both such beautiful women…they have lived there all their lives, unmarried, the younger looking after the other. The younger sister cultivates a beautiful garden full of flowers.
The countryside on our journey there was beautiful, lush, green, banana trees, palms, the house was down a long track that Rajesh’s father had to walk to school every day.
Then we went down even smaller lanes to find the National Art camp…again a beautiful location…artists working outside and on the roof spaces.
Back down more little lanes to pick Rajesh up…what we would have done without the satnav I don’t know.
At the National Art Camp we met Unni Krishna, who at 26 was the youngest artist to show in the Kochi Biennale in 2014 with his painted bricks.
He invited us up into a hamlet in the hills north of Thrissur to his new
new studio, built on land he bought next to his father’s smallholding.
During lockdown he had painted a brick a day in his tiny bedroom … it’s an amazing visual diary of his thoughts and daily life.